1.27.2011

Better Friendships

If I can say something about me and building friendship, TAMAD ako (I'm lazy) but I think my BFFs can say, I can be a very good friend.  

In the past few days, I came to know two wonderful persons who have made an impression on me not just about their wonderful personalities but because of their train of thoughts.

Edz and Au

Edz told me about EFFORT in building better posse.  Something I really lack (lazy, lazy) and something that I found within me that I should build.  Like in every relationship, it's a two-way street, but to cross one, you really have to walk through it and if you find yourself alone in the middle, then that's the time you start finding others to cross.  But first, for you to cross there, MAKE THE EFFORT.  I've made some really good friends back home and this laziness of mine might 'burn the bridge'.  So, EFFORT.

Au, on the other hand, made this statement about two-way relationship - your friends may be good or bad, you may be close or not, just DO NOT BACKBITE, CAUSE WE ALL HAVE WEAKNESSES.  And less talk, less mistakes.  Very true.  

So, if any of you my friends saw a PM in FB or in YM, then I'm asking you to cross the bridge with me.  Let's meet in the middle and allow time take its course with the friendship building, hopefully, you and I, hand in hand.